Why do we call each other friends?

 What is a friend? is it someone that always agrees with you? is it someone that never ruffles your feathers? Is it someone who never gets angry? 

Does a friend love you or just like you during the sunny days?

When does friendship end and when?

This isnt just a question about Palm Beach Quakers, but also about Quakers meetings in general.

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